
提起《成长的烦恼》这个名字,我的记忆一下子被拉到了十年以前,那时的我正在上着初中,青春期刚刚开始,一段懵懵懂懂的年龄,一个懵懵懂懂的男孩。然而,转眼之间,时光荏苒,许多年过去了,但那时看到的一部独特的电视剧却让我永远的记下了它;在以后的日子里,我不只一遍的看它,看了又看,十五岁时看,十八岁时看,二十岁时看,二十四岁了,还想看,我的生活在不断变化着,我自己也在不断变化着,然而有一样的东西却一直存在:就是"烦恼"--"成长的烦恼",正是它让我永远记住了这部充满了智慧的、杰出的作品--《成长的烦恼》。 现实生活中,能真正了解自己儿女的父母屈指可数,或者说寥寥无几,"代沟"现象的产生也不是一天两天了。从小到大被别人视作乖乖男的我,一心想打破这种既定的观念,于是,逆反心理不断膨胀,对父母整天在耳边的唠叨感到厌烦与刺耳。一个朋友说:你的心思埋得太深,找个机会与父母沟通,好好谈谈自己的想法……可是,对他们理解能力的质疑使我迟迟未付诸行动。自己心里想些什么,要些什么,父母不得而知;遭受的挫折和委屈,经历的痛苦和创伤,也都是一人独自承受。如果有Jason、Maggie式的父母,有把儿女当成朋友的"民主教育法"的家庭教育方式,那么,成为Mike、Carol、或Ben、Chrissy式的我也许能很高兴地接受"禁闭"。一个人的成长实属不易,烦恼也源源不断,不过,这个世界或许并不只有不快的事,所以,《成长的烦恼》不是板着面孔的说教片,同时也给我带来了欢乐。机灵的Mike,聪明的Carol,傻傻的Ben,小大人Chrissy,还有最佳父母Jason夫妇的幽默,处处洋溢着温馨与活泼的气氛! 《成长的烦恼》将人们的成长过程微缩再放大,是典型,也是总括,于社会,于父母,于大家,于我,不无启发! 让我们在这首“as long as we got each other”中再次回忆我们每个人美好的少年时期…… 歌詞: Show me that smile again Oh, show me that smile Don't waste another minute on your cryin' We're nowhere near the end We're nowhere near The best is ready to begin All in a cloudy daze I look into your eyes and see them shining out Holding you close this way Holding you this way Is like having summer everyday Ooh, ooh As long as we got each other We got the world spinnin' right in our hands Baby, you and me We gotta be The luckiest dreamers who never quit dreamin' As long as we keep on givin' We can take anything that comes our way Baby, rain or shine All the time We got each other Sharin' the laughter and love Promise me here and now Nothing but jokes Will never come between us You can depend on me 'Cause I need you like the air I breathe Oh, oh As long as we got each other We got the world spinnin' right in our hands Baby, you and me We gotta be The luckiest dreamers who never quit dreamin' As long as we keep on givin' We can take anything that comes our way Baby, rain or shine All the time We got each other Sharin' the laughter and love As long as we got each other We got the world spinnin' right in our hands Baby, you and me We gotta be The luckiest dreamers who never quit dreamin' As long as we keep on givin' We can take anything that comes our way Oh, baby, rain or shine All the time We got each other Sharin' the laughter and love
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